Wednesday, May 21, 2014

The Letter L

If you want kids to be independent thinkers who gradually demonstrate their learning, you have to Let 'em be.  Sometimes you have to be hard and it'll seem like you're being mean but take a breath in and don't give in to ...

A raised hand within 30 seconds of handing out a test or assignment - it's so annoying.  Make the rule that no student can raise their hand until after 10 min has passed. 

Restating directions over and over - somehow you have to make it accessible so everything is explicit and crystal clear. 

Power struggles - all the kid is doing is throwing you bait and if you bite, it's over.

Those are just the top three things on my mind when it comes to student growing their independence.  

#nevereasy 

The hard part about Letting 'em be is having your own self-confidence.  It's relinquishing your ego and accepting the fact that there are times when you're just not needed as much as you think you are.  And anyway, once you realize that it's terribly disempowering to always need help, Lettin 'em be seems like the right thing to do.

After making dinner I had to call my mom so I asked the kids to start eating on their own - I had no idea they would initiate their own blessing over their food - a sweet surprise from just Lettin' em be.  I was on the phone in the same room and captured this ...


Followed by "You opened your eyes!" 

It was a mark of independence, that Misa and John-Pio would bless their food independent of me leading or assuming that role always.  Anyway, tomorrow John-Pio gets to play with Legos for his L day and I'm going to continue my practice of Lettin 'em be

#justbelieve #anti-disempowerment








Tuesday, May 20, 2014

The Letter K

Our duty free lunches are never duty free, and our planning time is never sacred.  Cause we always have students hanging out.  Today a few former ones reminded me of some of our quotes and remarks over the years. But it's not just what we said, it's the fact that we repeated the same things over and over again. 

One thing they both remembered was: "We have high expectations and we will hold you accountable for everything you do and everything you don't do." 

#apparently #theygotthemessage

So John-Pio gets to play kickball for his K day, while my K is for Kill 'em with high expectations.  Man when expectations are met, you just feel like celebrating.  It seems strange sometimes - that I'd celebrate 70% work completion, or that of the 51 students I see every day, 6 moved into being proficient in reading.  I think to the public it seems naive and not enough cause for a celebration.  But here's the deal:

The work is HARD.  And I'm not talking about just the work of a teacher. 

My students span a huge range academically, many behind their same-age peers who struggle to draw from background knowledge, to apply basic skills to new situations, or to produce sophisticated final products.  It's tougher for them to commit with stamina and determination than their peers living in middle or upper middle class neighborhoods work through easily.

It's frustrating.  For them and for us. 
 
So I figure that if I stay the course and kill 'em with high expectations there's a chance that my students in poverty will meet expectations; and if I slather on the strange mix of teacher, cop, social worker, counselor, and parent, it's probable that they can even exceed expectations.  

Tomorrow, while John-Pio is out playing kickball, I'll be playing the hybrid role I find myself in every day and I'll be drillin' and killin' em with high expectations. 

Monday, May 19, 2014

The Letter J

In John-Pio's world, J is for jelly beans.  I'm not sure what he'll be doing with jelly beans but I know I'll be wearing jeans, cause my J is for Jeans.  I don't have many pairs - in fact, because I've devoted the rest of the school year to jeans, I hit up St. Vinny's last week and bought 5 comfortable pairs.

#score #stretchy

If certain people in the public want to know exactly what educators do, here's how one student responded to a prompt about what not to wear to school:

Students and teachers should be comfortable in school. It's not like we're "people watching" every day noting this and that about what people wear.  In school all any of us want to do is change everything.  Improve something.  Change something from being boring to being important.  The dress code is kind of a boring thing to change but if it's the dress code that's getting to you, then stop spending a lot of time complaining about it and think about it in a different way.  Then go and change it.  

Thank goodness the J day finally came.  I'm changing everything I don't normally do . . . by doing something as mundane as wearing jeans for the next 17 days.

#peoplewatching #jeansrule

Sunday, May 18, 2014

The Letter "I"

I'm not going to lie about the mixed feelings I have as the end of the school year comes to a close.  I feel a little angst about the time off, a little worried about how some students spend their summer in isolation, coupled with anticipation of August knowing full well I'll have forgotten all about these mixed feelings.  Sheesh.

#getoverit  #summerwillfly

John-Pio's class is doing a 26 day alphabet countdown until the end of the year and tomorrow is "I" day which means "Ice Treat Day" for all 3rd graders.  For me though, I'm going to let "I" stand for "Influence" in order to recognize certain people for having a profound influence on me as an educator.

Rosemary Baron - You were my first principal in my first job as a teacher, not to mention the only other non-Mormon in our building.  We had a unique bond from the get-go and you ingrained in me the philosophy of inclusion which I believe is a core part of who I am as a teacher.

Winn Egan - It was so long ago that you advised me through my graduate work not to mention, the work we did to develop and implement the "These Kids Are Driving Me Nuts!" curriculum which I believe has reached thousands of parents and teachers throughout the west and midwest.  You were the enthusiast in my early young adult life and I feel I carry that same torch of enthusiasm now.

Litler Matson - It's not just who you are to me but who you helped me become as an educator and person.  Thank you for filling the voids and for making me - seriously you made me - look at my practices and relationships with kids in a whole new way.  There's more to it but lets just say that you get me.  These days I hear your voice whenever something is hard, confusing, or just plain 'ol wrong.

Kate Jorgensen - You question the status quo and always put the craziness in its place.  Thanks for pushing me to create dynamic curriculum and for looking at my work as a true professional - our bonus of course, is in our friendship and the fact that we get to work side-by-side every day.

There are many other Influencers like Lois Bell, Erica Gottschalk, Barb Brodhagen, Ann Yehle, Nancy Casillas, Susan Wrathall, William Purkey, Chris Emdin, Dr. Def . . . the list is actually a finite one, because people who influence are just that special.  And I would never ever in a million years forget to mention my husband Brad who tops the list for his support, flexibility, and love.

#influencers  #oneofakind

Monday, April 21, 2014

Rocks and All Things Related: Bouldering with the Kids

Spring madness in the woods. Governor Dodge was dry and wide open for bouldering action.  One of my favorite things about getting kids outside is how easy they are - as they went in and out of climbing mode they came up with games like: 

Throw the Stick
Diggin' for Depth
Fairies in Flight
Trees are for Swinging

These pictures tell the story of the last few days.  Hope everyone got outside this weekend!

Ferrying up the pads 
Into the woods
Warming up

working it out

first time bouldering outside
Alexa's really good on rock!
On the Godfather Boulder 
Godfather - fun problem
Time for the Arboretum too
Listening for that cardinal
Lets photo bomb! 

Thursday, April 17, 2014

Why Do YOU Write?

I admit Common Core State Standards annoys and fascinates me.  Let me just say that this era of CCSS, particularly in English language arts, has me thinking all the time about essential writing skills.  CCSS asserts that developing clear, logical reasoning and the use of evidence are essential writing skills - two skills necessary for "private deliberation and responsible citizenship in a democratic republic."

I don't question the fact that it takes attitude and skills to become a proficient writer and that both benefit an individual's intellectual development.  The fascinating part to me is how to recruit the broadest possible spectrum of students into the sustained effort necessary to invest in that intellectual development. Using Misa and John-Pio as my data points, I get to witness their development in writing at a very young age - one loves it for the sake of creativity and reporting and independently gets after it on her own.  The other can take it or leave it - it's like "eh, just let me get through it."  And it's that kind of young writer I need to avoid turning off for the next 6 years or so of formal schooling.

Enter 30-day Poetry Challenge - done in a structured setting in the midst of peers, there is a community of writers rising to meet the challenge to write a poem every day.  A challenge for me no doubt, and one my students and my fam get to witness in me.  Sending them off for Spring Break with a chart identifying the daily challenge and a successful daily turnout of 40+ poems turns into a trickle as evidenced in my Google shared drive.  Can't help that, right - I mean, writing is enhanced by community, especially with my students who show a wide variance in attitude and skills.  Still, no one in my class says I hate writing.  No one groans or sighs heavily when they're given an instruction to write, and no one has yet to tear, crumple, or throw a piece of paper in my face.  But there are those who show indifference and are seemingly unconcerned about their ideas and thoughts on paper - and sometimes I'd rather they be in my face than show this lack of enthusiasm. 

That's why I'm in the market for why writers write.  Why do you write?  Why don't you write?  Why is it hard?  How is it made easier, more fun?  Who writes?  There's wisdom in listening to what pop culture artists and writers say about writing and why they persist even when they're alone.

Jay Z, who has a word and phrase gift, says write as much as possible and that repetition is the key to perfection. Without his years of practice, powerful lyrics that speak to young adolescents like “I will not lose, for even in defeat, there's a valuable lesson learned, so it evens up for me” would not make its mark.  Let me repeat that like a person in authority and have it fall on deaf ears, but let me say this comes straight from Jay Z and no doubt, they'll listen. 

Lupe Fiasco communicates with the music first.  He says that creativity comes in weird places and in weird ways, that for him thoughts come when he's actually in motion, and that for some raps, you need to stand up.  Maybe people will give hip hop artists more credit - and maybe my students will give writing more credit when they realize the process is different for everyone.  Just maybe I'll relinquish that control and allow them to stand up when they write. 

For India Arie, she went through a time of isolation and indifference and instead of giving up on writing, she took days to pray.  In her words, "That was my first glimpse of a new resilience, of stepping into my power."  I'm going to play "Beautiful" and "Brown Skin," while introducing her to my students with this quote: "Writing is about not having anything to prove except to simply express myself because it's who I am - not as a means to an end . . ."

William Safire says writing forces him to think more cogently than when he's just shooting off his mouth.  Let me quote Safire while emphasizing the need to supply evidence when writing an argumentative piece - "shooting off your mouth" is just not very credible, but supporting your views with a passionate voice and with cogent reasoning is more likely to get an audience's ear.  

My favorite reasons comes from Madeline L'Engle who says we write because we are story people and must tell our stories.  And isn't that the truth?  Authors, songwriters, poets, bloggers, reflect in very different ways when it comes to current events, history, fiction, nonfiction, narratives, and poetry.  But there's a commonality in real writing - and that's that we're in it for sustenance, for the long haul, for perhaps a hopeful experience.  CCSS doesn't exactly say that. In fact, the true annoyance is the despair from the control CCSS has to strip writing down to essential skills for "private deliberation and responsible citizenship in a democratic republic."

How about writing for freedom because it strengthens us, or because you want to tell the world in your language what you're feeling, or because it helps you take control of relevant issues and personal and social themes that dominate?  Perhaps it's inherent in CCSS and I have more leeway than I believe, but at the start of the day, I still feel annoyed and fascinated by it all.  Which is why I'm still  in the market to create this bank of why writers write. 



Although Taylor didn’t give an example from her own writing, she shared her admiration for Richard Curtis, who wrote and directed the 2003 movie ‘Love Actually.’ “Richard Curtis is one of my favorite writers. And he’s the guy behind ‘Love Actually, which is my favorite movie. I think the best thing about Richard Curtis’ writing is that when he plays out these relationships in these movies it’s not just a boy and a girl fall in love and all that. It’s all these inside little mementos of each other. Like the one relationship in ‘Love Actually’ they had an inside joke of how she loves a Joni Mitchell album and then there’s the little storyline where all the little jokes that play out. So if you can, in your songwriting, be as detailed as possible. Because for people to relate to it, they may not have the same details in their relationships that you have in yours but they can relate in that they had these little details of the relationships. The more honesty the better, the more details the better, the more direct the better.”

Read More: Taylor Swift Teaches Songwriting 101 | http://theboot.com/taylor-swift-songwriting-tips/?trackback=tsmclip
Although Taylor didn’t give an example from her own writing, she shared her admiration for Richard Curtis, who wrote and directed the 2003 movie ‘Love Actually.’ “Richard Curtis is one of my favorite writers. And he’s the guy behind ‘Love Actually, which is my favorite movie. I think the best thing about Richard Curtis’ writing is that when he plays out these relationships in these movies it’s not just a boy and a girl fall in love and all that. It’s all these inside little mementos of each other. Like the one relationship in ‘Love Actually’ they had an inside joke of how she loves a Joni Mitchell album and then there’s the little storyline where all the little jokes that play out. So if you can, in your songwriting, be as detailed as possible. Because for people to relate to it, they may not have the same details in their relationships that you have in yours but they can relate in that they had these little details of the relationships. The more honesty the better, the more details the better, the more direct the better.”

Read More: Taylor Swift Teaches Songwriting 101 | http://theboot.com/taylor-swift-songwriting-tips/?trackback=tsmclip
Although Taylor didn’t give an example from her own writing, she shared her admiration for Richard Curtis, who wrote and directed the 2003 movie ‘Love Actually.’ “Richard Curtis is one of my favorite writers. And he’s the guy behind ‘Love Actually, which is my favorite movie. I think the best thing about Richard Curtis’ writing is that when he plays out these relationships in these movies it’s not just a boy and a girl fall in love and all that. It’s all these inside little mementos of each other. Like the one relationship in ‘Love Actually’ they had an inside joke of how she loves a Joni Mitchell album and then there’s the little storyline where all the little jokes that play out. So if you can, in your songwriting, be as detailed as possible. Because for people to relate to it, they may not have the same details in their relationships that you have in yours but they can relate in that they had these little details of the relationships. The more honesty the better, the more details the better, the more direct the better.”

Read More: Taylor Swift Teaches Songwriting 101 | http://theboot.com/taylor-swift-songwriting-tips/?trackback=tsmclip
Although Taylor didn’t give an example from her own writing, she shared her admiration for Richard Curtis, who wrote and directed the 2003 movie ‘Love Actually.’ “Richard Curtis is one of my favorite writers. And he’s the guy behind ‘Love Actually, which is my favorite movie. I think the best thing about Richard Curtis’ writing is that when he plays out these relationships in these movies it’s not just a boy and a girl fall in love and all that. It’s all these inside little mementos of each other. Like the one relationship in ‘Love Actually’ they had an inside joke of how she loves a Joni Mitchell album and then there’s the little storyline where all the little jokes that play out. So if you can, in your songwriting, be as detailed as possible. Because for people to relate to it, they may not have the same details in their relationships that you have in yours but they can relate in that they had these little details of the relationships. The more honesty the better, the more details the better, the more direct the better.”

Read More: Taylor Swift Teaches Songwriting 101 | http://theboot.com/taylor-swift-songwriting-tips/?trackback=tsmclip

Monday, April 14, 2014

Post Winter

It's been a while.  Like everyone else in my circle I've been waiting to declare it post-winter.  I've been waiting to say Spring in an exclamatory way that punctuates every single day, and not just these random days where I see only glimpses.  Truth is I'm still not able to declare or exclaim it, but I can say with certainty that today I feel it because my long awaited Spring Break has started.  Here's what's been happening from February to now . . .


John-Pio learned how to gas up the car. 
Lisa, Stacey, Suzi and I went to Hueco for a long weekend.  It was so awesome. 

Our digs

Muscling up and topping out
Settling into that crimp

Got sun-tired working this problem

Stacey on Mushroom  - strong Mama!

Sun sun sun

Yeah Stacey on that block that was once there but now it's not cause it broke

Pad season

John-Pio turned 9 and had his whole class over to celebrate

Ever devoted big sister

Serenading her lil bro

Playground Workout

Here's to more playground time and the start of no-hat season.  Here's to pad season.  And green grass season.  Climbing outside season.  Running in a tank and shorts season.  Barbecue season.  Here's to Post-Winter! 
Last day for hats.  Kate and I dreaming of Summer!